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1529050 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 11:53AM

Beckysharp - 03 Oct, 2023 - 11:41AM

I prefer not to be the one booking ... I do all that in my daily work life .... nice just to rock up !! :)

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1408586 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 11:41AM

Dotty each to their own obviously- everybody on here does what works for them which is exactly as it should be. For me personally I do not want anymore life admin!!! I only want the fun bits 😋

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1529050 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 11:33AM

Ricky67999 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 09:20AM
It is lovely - I do not own anything from there - quite expensive but SO lovely!

Regarding payment and paper trail - I have my own bank account/email - I had one lover who preferred me to book and pay and then he would give me the money that was ok - but I have one who will organise book and pay.

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Jay122 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 10:57AM

I’d certainly cover and pay for the first meet and then I guess it’s all about the relationship itself (take turns). Of course goes without saying, separate billing, email, card etc!!

1408586 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 10:07AM

Exactly Ricky. No way I’d book a hotel on my credit card. Way too risky (for me).

I knew someone who was very into catsuits… 😉

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Paula99 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 09:35AM

Ricky67999…

If you want to find yourself a lover then there are risks and calculated risks ….either way if you intend to use a hotel then someone has to book …if you travel for your profession then you will be using hotels etc ..using a different email address is an idea ….
Think about your options logically with the correct brain 🧠 😂😂

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Ricky67999 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 09:20AM

Dotty Green - re catsuit, think I let my imagination get away with me there - one either lives in hope or fantasy land… back to reality…. HB is great, glad you like it too 🙂.

The other subject here on paying is leaving a trail of evidence that could be discovered - I think for some situations that will be very relevant…

1408586 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 08:50AM

DG LBgood-

I wonder if it’s actually a bit of a 🚩 if a guy is suggesting we pay half? Being on here they can obviously afford to cover the whole bill.

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1529050 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 07:36AM

Lbgood11 - 02 Oct, 2023 - 06:02PM
I had one who always mage me pay half then he 👻 after a year 😏

boav91 - and Ricky - seems ideal - catsuit tho Ricky ?? But good taste Honey Birdette !

Like TBH … I make crystal clear about who pays ! And I love planning the picnic .. sexy food .. good wine…

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boav91 - 02 Oct, 2023 - 11:23PM

For me I am happy to pay if I know that the other person is willing to contribute and it is fair. In my situation it is more about how to keep it more discreet so my other half tends to pay for the lunches and food and I do the rooms. Seems to work