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Did anybody else...

Did anybody else join IE because their partner cheated on them first? Originally I was bitter and mad, and wanted to get some sort of secret revenge. But now I kind of get it, the whole affair thing. I almost feel cheated that I had stayed faithful for 17 years, oh well, they do say that life begins in your 40's 😝

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1365842 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 11:36AM

I will simply leave this quote here
"Those who live in glass houses should not throw stones"

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MatureWorcsBBW - 12 Jun, 2020 - 11:27AM

It's not about revenge for me and other women who feel like me.

It's more a case of "What's good enough for that gander is also good enough for this goose."

Focusing all of that sexual energy onto someone who certainly appreciates the effort you make is reward enough.

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1352608 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 11:17AM

Not every man is that stupid when it comes to women having affairs. I would never humiliate my husband but at the same time I would never had assumed he was being faithful!!
He was out till 12 midnight at least three times a week for at least 18 years he had affairs with women who could further his career nothing else

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1369031 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 11:07AM

Yes.. I still remember when it happened and from then on I thought Lets get ready to Rumble 😉

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1367807 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 11:06AM

I don't think having an affair for revenge is a particularly healthy way to deal with those feelings. If you have anger and resentment those issues could be addressed in a more sensible way.

I have affairs because I like sex and I want to. My husband has never cheated and will never find out that I cheat.

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Dejavous - 12 Jun, 2020 - 10:59AM

Didn't join because of cheating but because of the need to find someone who wants a relationship in which sex is a fundamental part of the enjoyment. When you are in a relationship where sex is not wanted by one party then it is inevitable that you will explore other avenues.


MatureWorcsBBW - 12 Jun, 2020 - 10:59AM

Lisaxoxo

I totally agree with you.

Men think that THEIR wife is frigid and wants no sex whatsoever.
But maybe, just maybe the husband doesn't offer her the sex she needs and SHE'S the one having the secret affair.
I know so so many married women who have secret liason sex and the husbands would be so shocked and surprised.



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Lisaxoxo - 12 Jun, 2020 - 10:47AM

I think it is probably a very common scenario for a woman as the mas never believe that his wife would do such a thing, which makes me laugh.

Many men believe their other half doesn't like sex, I bet you, the wives just don't like sex with them. 😂

We are much much better at multitasking and time management, don't forget we are someone's wife 😇

All my married friends are not that Saint and their hubby's bet they are.

x

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Yorkman2020 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 10:40AM

I don’t know why I did not find a lover sooner and the passion I was missing . Ie is a challenge as some just like to talk and not meet

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246345 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 10:13AM

@feeling frisky

I'd go with that last comment.

Sounds much better 🤣😒

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