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Louise0103 - 02 Feb, 2021 - 12:16AM

Yes most of the time I don’t even read lengthy messages x

1431199 - 01 Feb, 2021 - 10:12PM

Am I the only person who sends messages which are never read?

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Spicyone - 01 Feb, 2021 - 10:13AM

I think a lot of people try to impress with first messages, mostly puts me off as come across as bragging.

ExoticOrchid - 31 Jan, 2021 - 11:30PM

RealAffair - 11:04PM

PS: I wouldn't even presume to suggest, let alone give any "tutorials" ... 🤦‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

ExoticOrchid - 31 Jan, 2021 - 11:28PM

RealAffair - 11:04PM

I'm afraid there is very little "sisterhood" here 🙄

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RealAffair - 31 Jan, 2021 - 11:04PM

ExoticOrchid - 31 Jan, 2021 - 05:15PM

Hertsguy36 - 04:01PM

Actually there is a function here where you can save a message and re-use.

Seems like some of your fellow "sisters" would benefit from a tutorial 😂😂

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ExoticOrchid - 31 Jan, 2021 - 05:15PM

Hertsguy36 - 04:01PM

Actually there is a function here where you can save a message and re-use.

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Hertsguy36 - 31 Jan, 2021 - 04:01PM

I know there is always element of the guys here who refuse to take no for an answer, and it pis@&s me off because it has such an impact on the rest of us. I will always try and send a well considered message, mentioning something in their profile, why I believe we might be a match. To just get nothing but a wall of silence back is draining, it feels rude, not saying it is, but that’s how it feels. Kinda wish there was an auto response on here that you ladies could send with the push of a single button, ‘no thanks, wish you well’. Honestly getting a knock back is so so so much more welcome than just the silent treatment.
God who thought meeting like minded people could be so difficult 😂😂

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Polycarbonate - 31 Jan, 2021 - 09:58AM

Women are just as brief with a first message. In fact they don't do long introductions. So in general we are talking about men sending a long missive to a woman. It's a dumb idea, as you nothing of her. Later on you have more detail upon which to enact your Lord Byron. So save till after the hotel meet.

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1383332 - 30 Jan, 2021 - 11:28PM

I am stunned that so many guys give us a bad name by not taking a polite no for an answer, that’s ungentlemanly.

As for a novel, it would be great to get more than 5 words of 1 syllable, a longer prose shows depth in my view.

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