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1421217 - 01 Apr, 2021 - 08:59AM

I know , it’s the researching love bombing I find odd ,

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1117169 - 01 Apr, 2021 - 12:17AM

@ Beretta

Sigmaguy is actually making much the same point as you are.

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1421217 - 31 Mar, 2021 - 04:16PM

Yes sigma guy , because everyone needs to do tests written by snowflakes , how’s about using the good old common sense , miss love need want you texts from someone you don’t know is batshit , and if you need to look up to see that , then the person shouldn’t be allowed out without their mum ! , we all have a b£&@:hit radar gut instinct use it . Have fun

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Sigmaguy - 31 Mar, 2021 - 01:57PM

Anonymouse-1

I agree that receiving an affectionate text is great, but I suggest you research the subject of ‘Love Bombing’ -

Too many texts, and affectionate messages before you’ve actually gone on dates and begin to know the person, are a huge red flags. How can anyone miss, love, need, want you if you don’t know them and they don’t know you?’

Loving texts once a relationship is ‘in flow’ is absolutely gorgeous...

Can I also recommend you and your partner take the ‘Love Languages’ test (Google it) - It can resolve many miscommunication issues and both you and your partner will know what turns each other on.... Some people hate messages and see them as needy, some love them and look forward to receiving them.

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Gormlessoaf - 31 Mar, 2021 - 05:34AM

Theres having necessary and intimate contact that are part of the magic and coincidence. This is welcome and manageable.

There is also dealing with someone on the obsessive spectrum. This is a problem and a spoiler.

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1329251 - 30 Mar, 2021 - 05:43PM

Yeah I wouldn't over think it xx it is what it is, but you're within your rights not to hang around waiting. I'd keep my options open sometimes x chat to other potential friends if it's early in the relationship

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1433297 - 30 Mar, 2021 - 03:46PM

All comes down to what you both agree on.
I have no issue with contact as I’m single but if someone isn’t then their needs and protection are paramount.
No real additional comment as still awaiting a first contact 😇

Jakeisback6969 - 30 Mar, 2021 - 11:05AM

Think that it’s more for men than ladies.....
If I’m wrong then please cum tap me on the shoulder 😂

1117169 - 30 Mar, 2021 - 10:32AM

If you are simply looking for a regular "fuck buddy" then contact only to make arrangements to meet is required and its easy to contain and compartmentalise the relationship, much like you do with friends and work colleagues.

If you start communicating frequently in between, you will then start to build an emotional connection and, if you are a normal caring person and not emotionally callous, your relationship will almost inevitably develop into something much more. You may even fall in love.

Its hard to get the balance right.

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1444413 - 30 Mar, 2021 - 10:15AM

I suppose it's all in the circumstances your both in but even if it's just a case of touching base never goes wrong