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Emerald Dream - 02 Nov, 2021 - 11:22PM

People will say whatever they think will attract someone for whatever motive they have .it's very much up to chance as to whether they are really into something or just exaggerating or lying to make themselves a bit more less boring. Fifty Shades is a badly written book that unfortunately appeals to some men who have no independent thought and just fancy tying someone up and hitting them .Some women or men think the props are the point and aren't intelligent enough to know its a mind thing , primarily .At least there's fewer self styled Mr Greys around now .Anyone calling themselves Mr Grey is definitely a red flag .

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TallDarkAndSarcastic - 02 Nov, 2021 - 09:57PM

Absolutely love it! That crisp shell, smooth centre and sometimes even like to dabble with the nut filled type.

We are talking about M&M, right?

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1294744 - 02 Nov, 2021 - 09:33PM

I am an open minded woman but some men haven't grown up and think that mentioning S&M is some kind of signal. As is saying I'm ''non-vanilla''
Just enjoy being naked and discovering one another.
See what happens next.

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1117169 - 02 Nov, 2021 - 07:23PM

It has never appealed to me. There are plenty of ways to make " Normal" sex fun and exciting without resorting to inflicting or receiving pain. If a couple are genuinely turned on by each other there is no need for this behaviour but if its your thing that's fine.

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Paula99 - 02 Nov, 2021 - 07:07PM

Define normal sex???...
If it's anything like my hubby...once round the block...over in seconds...fall asleep...he doesn't know me in the bedroom at all...🤣

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1475619 - 02 Nov, 2021 - 11:35AM

What’s wrong with quality normal sex? It should be fun not painful

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1469055 - 02 Nov, 2021 - 10:20AM

I prefer M & S , ... maybe it's my age !

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Imneverg - 14 Oct, 2021 - 08:03AM

For me in a relationship.sex should be fun. As long as you all to each other and play together why not try new things. I've always wanted to tie a lady to a bed and have fun,but the lady has to want to do it too. But I'm no not into the hitting, spitting or pain side. I'm not a dominant male and I'm not looking for a submissive female. It's only kinky the first time you try it

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Paula99 - 14 Oct, 2021 - 07:30AM

50 shades is nothing like the real thing...x

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Paula99 - 14 Oct, 2021 - 06:23AM

This is a complex issue for me...its something I want to run with but don't have the time...I have chatted to a couple of guys that are interested in it but the first thing that comes to mind is the *trust* element and this is earned not given...I don't like being out of control as a rule so I find it difficult to *let go* completely...there are some parts of this I would never agree to those being the partaking or recreational drugs during the act..either way if you find the right guy you can set the boundaries and create your *safe word*...a little bit of slap n tickle doesn't hurt 🤪

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