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S&M - seems to crop up on so many profiles. Is 50 shades still to blame, isn't that a bit passe? Is it really so prolific or do people think its what other people want?

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Sigmaguy - 08 Jul, 2021 - 10:47PM

Classylady77 ... I don't know about you, but finding quality anywhere is like finding a needle in a heystack... So many woman seem to ask the question 'Are there any decent guys out there?' Same applies for us guys... I'm single and trust me, the market place is full of rejects and nutters who simply don't know how to form quality relationships.... so yup... I must have been looking in all the wrong places... ;-)

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ClassyLady77 - 08 Jul, 2021 - 06:04PM

Teresa and Preppy spot on.. most men and women will run a mile, if they went to a club.. Bdsm is not for those who want a one night stand, being a sub doesn’t make you easy.. I have extremely high standards and those who are lucky enough are those who get the best out of me... 😉

For those who are seriously into bdsm look at fet life and go to a local munch.. lots of fakes on there but Munches are brilliant just drinks in a pub but nice to chat to like minded people..

StigmaGuy I’m into both those things and definitely more the latter.. Your obviously dealing with the wrong ladies..

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show and tell - 08 Jul, 2021 - 03:06PM

Dull vanilla sex is to blame

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1449137 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 11:09PM

looks like i missed the fun... well you know what they say, arguing with someone on the internet is like the special olympics...

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ExoticOrchid - 05 Jul, 2021 - 12:41PM

🍋🍋🍋👅👅👅

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1458849 - 05 Jul, 2021 - 12:26PM

Loretta , chezley , start of a beautiful relationship then , you could suck lemons together , have to keep those tongues sharp

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lorettadelray - 05 Jul, 2021 - 12:13PM

Curious980

All woman here.

You've only just joined and barking up the wrong tree along with the other quaint,confused old ladies.

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1458849 - 05 Jul, 2021 - 09:32AM

Chezley , you and Lorettadelray are perfect for each other, a pity your the same person ,

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 04 Jul, 2021 - 10:19PM

Chezley - 04 Jul, 2021 - 07:00PM

Aaah Chezley, ever the gentleman. I knew I’d provoke a response from someone clacking away on his keyboard, ever the warrior. I wonder how successful you’re finding your experience on here after your ‘epiphany’. If your conduct on these forums is anything to go by I wouldn’t hold your breath, and I wouldn’t be surprised if you bumped into your wife who’s also had an epiphany. Wouldn’t that be funny?!

And as for me going back to my previous life, why would I want to do that? Never look back.

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Preppy - 04 Jul, 2021 - 09:31PM

As someone who has been into and we’ll known in bdsm scene even before the days of IC ! I have to smile at what I consider the leather trouser brigade who think, barking commands is the essence of a “Dom” my IE is my treasured sub who is fully conversant with the subtleties of the lifestyle. I have been horrified at the crude violence seen in some clubs and presumably this continues in private. Yes 50 shades was as much an eye opener to some as it was a huge laugh to others but the surrender of control is a gift not to be abused but treated with respect and consideration especially by someone who knows how.

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