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1494077 - 05 Jul, 2024 - 08:40PM

AtP48,

I think it takes a very giving and secure personality to allow for a spouse to do this. Your wife is a lucky woman that you are so understanding. As a woman on IE, I probably wouldn’t go with a man who I knew was in an open relationship. I quite like the clandestine nature of an affair, but that’s just me.

Hope you settle into the kind of lifestyle both of you are happy with.

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1683831 - 05 Jul, 2024 - 08:12PM

It's great that you and your wife are open and communicative about your needs. Mentioning your open relationship in your profile is important for honesty and setting clear expectations. While it might put some people off, it ensures that those who do respond are genuinely comfortable with your situation. Besides this, consider optimising other aspects of your profile: ensure your photos are high quality, and make your bio engaging and reflective of your personality. Actively engage with potential matches and show genuine interest. Patience and persistence are key. Good luck!

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ExoticOrchid - 05 Jul, 2024 - 04:52PM

FluffyClouds - 09:51AM

I guess some leopards do change their spots then.
Impressive.
Well done. 👏

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Aim to please48 - 05 Jul, 2024 - 02:52PM

EmnEm123

I love you. You’re almost as entertaining as the BS you
think I’m posting 🥰🤣😂. Don’t change for anyone, not that you would😉😘.
Oh, and P99, my wife wants me to try and find happiness on here and does help, in more ways than one.
I actually consider myself a very lucky man.
Peace to all🙏🏽

EmnEm123 - 05 Jul, 2024 - 02:33PM

FluffyClouds

I really don't remember that but I will give you the benefit of the doubt. So you are one person who has admitted to being the OP. Well done! 🥱

LadyDe

You obviously haven't left the forum as you are commenting.

I have no right to object to someone having an open marriage, or anything else consenting adults want to get up to.

This particular scenario doesn't seem, to me, credible.

I won't apologise for having an opinion, after all this is the point of the forum.

I find it rather odd that a woman would complain about multiple women having an opinion.

Would you prefer that we all left the forum so that you, FluffyClouds and Enigma agree with any turgid nonsense that the men post?

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FluffyClouds - 05 Jul, 2024 - 09:51AM

Exotic -

3.5 years ago 🤷...that's a long time ago

ExoticOrchid - 05 Jul, 2024 - 09:19AM

"Leaving keys in a dish by the door"???

So very, very 1960s or which ever decade you've heard of regarding "swinging" ... 🤣🤣🤣

ExoticOrchid - 05 Jul, 2024 - 09:15AM

Yes, I get easily confused with these multiple profiles ... my bad!

Enigma.. - 05 Jul, 2024 - 08:54AM

@Aim to please48

I had a wee look at your profile earlier this morning 😊.
I thought it to be well written, open, honest and you state what you are looking for.
Your profile makes a refreshing change from the auto generated, short and over long full of BS profiles some males on here have.
And… I do hope that, going forward, if you think that Ie is the place for you, you meet someone that deserves you.
Decent and honest men are hard to find on this site.
All the best 🍀🤞🏻.

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Paula99 - 05 Jul, 2024 - 05:38AM

LadyDe…

Clearly you and your husband have a partnership that derives on trust and if your relationship is working then that’s all well and good ..

Concerning the OP in this …I wonder if his wife would be so ‘accommodating’ if the scenario was reversed…would she be so willing to ‘help’ him to find a Mistress Jenna if she was willing to ‘keep’ him at all costs..

Concerning your comment about the women on here …this is a chat room and you can’t expect everyone to agree with everything…😀

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