Should I or shouldn’t I?
Hi, my wife and are still very much in love and are actually still having good sex but we both feel there’s a little something missing. So, we have just recently started an open relationship and we’ve both newly joined IE in the last couple of weeks or so. We’re both looking for quite different things from IE but obviously ultimately it comes down to wanting to get intimate with someone other than each other.
My wife seems to be getting loads of attention but me, not so much.
My question is, do you think the fact that I’ve mentioned in my profile about being in an open relationship is putting a lot of ladies off.
Should I not mention it? Or is it something else?
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Enigma.. - 05 Jul, 2024 - 08:54AM
@Aim to please48
I had a wee look at your profile earlier this morning 😊.
I thought it to be well written, open, honest and you state what you are looking for.
Your profile makes a refreshing change from the auto generated, short and over long full of BS profiles some males on here have.
And… I do hope that, going forward, if you think that Ie is the place for you, you meet someone that deserves you.
Decent and honest men are hard to find on this site.
All the best 🍀🤞🏻.
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Paula99 - 05 Jul, 2024 - 05:38AM
LadyDe…
Clearly you and your husband have a partnership that derives on trust and if your relationship is working then that’s all well and good ..
Concerning the OP in this …I wonder if his wife would be so ‘accommodating’ if the scenario was reversed…would she be so willing to ‘help’ him to find a Mistress Jenna if she was willing to ‘keep’ him at all costs..
Concerning your comment about the women on here …this is a chat room and you can’t expect everyone to agree with everything…😀
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1660660 - 05 Jul, 2024 - 12:11AM
Looking at this from a male perspective, @aim to please 48, you are going to end up more of a cuckold than in an open relationship. You need to decide if this is what you want. It might be and if so, good on you. But if this is going to cause you pain, then this is something to discuss with your wife.
None of us know the nuances of your relationship. I wish you the best of luck. For me, if my wife had an affair and she was discreet enough that I didn’t know about it, I would live in blissful ignorance. I would be neither happy nor sad- because I wouldn’t know and I would trust her to be faithful.
A seen thing can’t be unseen. She can’t take up this option now.
Clearly this is not the case for the two accounts who have been posting.
If you want to know, about her affairs, but not be a cuckold perhaps some variation of fetlife is the place for you to find the answers.
But the answers you find might not be what you want to hear.
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ExoticOrchid - 04 Jul, 2024 - 11:13PM
FluffyClouds - 10:34PM
I don't recall that thread either ... did you admit to being the OP as FluffyClouds or as your other profile name of Fourinchheels? I'm confused. 🤔
ExoticOrchid - 04 Jul, 2024 - 11:04PM
sl4m - 09:39PM
Indeed you are correct in what you say. It would appear that those who have never been have certain perceptions about these venues which are obviously wrong.
As for this particular OP's "open relationship" I am with Life is a Beach ... how is it open when it is one sided and the OP is terrified of losing his wife so he's just going along with it. It is obviously not "open" like LadyDe's marriage.
Having first read the thread and going by what was in it, I commented. Then the OP started commenting and totally changed the scenario. 🤷🏻♀️
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