Should I or shouldn’t I?
Hi, my wife and are still very much in love and are actually still having good sex but we both feel there’s a little something missing. So, we have just recently started an open relationship and we’ve both newly joined IE in the last couple of weeks or so. We’re both looking for quite different things from IE but obviously ultimately it comes down to wanting to get intimate with someone other than each other.
My wife seems to be getting loads of attention but me, not so much.
My question is, do you think the fact that I’ve mentioned in my profile about being in an open relationship is putting a lot of ladies off.
Should I not mention it? Or is it something else?
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secretlover4me - 04 Jul, 2024 - 09:39PM
Hey
Not that I'm an expert in the swinging world but I think you can go to venues and then go do your own thing so you aren't actually watching what each other get up to. At least you are both doing the same thing at the same time. Otherwise one could be home while the other is out on a date wondering what's going on!
Your situation most definitely isn't the norm on here
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EmnEm123 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 09:29PM
Obviously if the person is posting or messaging they are real!
But is what they are posting truthful?
Finding it hard to believe, whether the supposed "wife" has suddenly chipped in.
He's claiming to be the quiet, shy type who really loves his wife and would prefer that neither of them were here.
Now he's posting that she wants a good hard spanking and fucking. Doesn't seem credible.
Funbunny48 You're right it is up to me and I don't believe it!
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1408586 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 09:12PM
I’m sure I’m not the only one who has been messaged by the OP after posting on this thread so I assume he must be real?!
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Funbunny48 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 08:56PM
My love, as we were sitting in our kitchen discussing this online chat I felt I had to join it!!
BTW I am Aim to please48’s wife!! I know a lot of you will not understand our relationship or situation but we are very much a real couple. I am blessed to have the love and support of my husband on this journey together which I know is for very selfish reasons, as I definitely want to have my cake and eat it!!
We are at a stage in our relationship where we would like to explore other experiences with other people, fulfilling dreams, fantasies and desires. Whether you understand or believe it EmnEm 123 is up to u !
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Aim to please48 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 08:42PM
Hey EmnEm123,
Do you think I’m making all this up. Yes my wife could read this and in fact I’ve just been talking to her about it.
We are very open about it all. We don’t share details about people we’re chatting to but do discuss certain topics regarding IE and if there people that are just wrongen’s on here and just funny to read about we laugh about it together.
We have no secrets from one another. She knows she want her cake and eat it to and so do I. I’m not over the moon about the fact but that’s how it is. She want’s a good hard spanking and fucking from someone new that’s going to give her a bit more excitement in life than what I can give her. I’m just not that type of guy. But she loves the type of guy I am.
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Aim to please48 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 08:11PM
I’d best re-write my profile yet another time then🙄
Honestly’s the best policy then I guess🤣
Really do appreciate everyone’s opinion and comment's,
Many thanks 🙏🏽 😊XX
EmnEm123 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 08:02PM
Are people really buying this garbage?
The supposed OP is agreeing with every negative comment from everybody, including those regarding his wife, who is supposedly a member and can read this!
🎵And the band played believe it if you like!🎵
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Toffee.macchiato4 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 07:57PM
Hi OP
I think it’s pretty cool 😎 that you and your wife have come a decision that’s unconventional but suits you both.
Many people would love to have such mature conversations with their partners I suspect 🤔
But please try to manage your expectations on here, as a man you just won’t get as much attention as a woman. Sad I know
Just plug on be yourself
Live happy and least you can try 👌
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Aim to please48 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 07:56PM
Yes, if my wife had an affair with me not knowing a thing, totally oblivious, it would be do much easier but in our situation that would be very difficult. I’m guessing like most of your situation though.
My wife wouldn’t have been able to do that anyway, the guilt would be to much for her to handle.
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