How quickly can a meeting become sexual?

How quickly should a meet move on to sexual contact, heavy petting inside clothing before full...

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What do we really disclose?

Meeting a new person is always exciting. However most of us are meeting illicitly. What are your...

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Take things slowly?

I'm a female and have been on a lot of meets during the time I have spent on this...

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Distance and how to get a reply?

I live in the far tip of Cornwall
Tried every website and app known to man for the last 4...

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Am I just being over sensitive or is this acceptable?

OK I've met a few people from this site and one recently who appears really nice and genuine....

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What was the thing that triggered you to have an affair?

I know we all have our own reasons for being here but what makes someone have an affair. For some...

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Christmas Meets

Anyone have a nice meet planned with their IE before Christmas? Do you do gifts or is that too much?

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Autumn meets

Is anyone else enjoying the freedom of kids back to school and the chance to start arranging...

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What Happens At Glasto....Stays At Glasto!

Saucy illicit hook ups - holidays/festivals/getaways are the ideal excuse right?

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A post for Un-Lockdown Love

And at the close of the most beautiful day this year and with everyone else out for the...

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Ever been in a situation like this?

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Happy Valentine's Day

Happy Valentine's Day - Let's share our best (and worse) Valentine's Day...

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