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Whisper942 - 20 Aug, 2020 - 08:33PM

I guess if you've had some good conversation online and you think you have clicked then its worth arranging for a daytime coffee. I personally wouldn't feel comfortable doing more than that on a 1st date but if it goes really well and you have the time and freedom, you could move to the next level you feel comfortable with.

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509129 - 20 Aug, 2020 - 07:59PM

I always offer to buy lunch I guess I am a bit old fashioned like that . Queenbee34 it happens to us all don't take it personally it's his loss I am sure x

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gemini2310 - 20 Aug, 2020 - 07:36PM

Queenbee34:

That's nasty doing that to you so wrong let's hope the next one does the same to him why are some on here to just waste peoples time and effort

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ExoticOrchid - 20 Aug, 2020 - 07:29PM

Queenbee34 - 06:58PM

No, he is super cowardly ... one of the many on here without any cajones!!!

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1328172 - 20 Aug, 2020 - 06:58PM

First date drinks .... If he turns up
I got stood up a few weeks ago
What an awful feeling
And get ghosted
Haha either I'm super ugly or doing something wrong
Online dating is brutal and my ego can't take much more !

1386735 - 20 Aug, 2020 - 05:39PM

Definitely a coffee or a quick drink. Dinner is way too long for a first meet, especially if it’s going badly.
Imagine being stuck with someone who you really have no spark with for a couple of hours. I’m happy to have a drink even if there’s no spark, as one thing this place has taught me there are so many different people out there with different stories, I find fascinating,..... but an hour is plenty

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Ha1234 - 20 Aug, 2020 - 05:18PM

@Busybee68
Its risky...yes...that's why careful planning and driving is good

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gemini2310 - 20 Aug, 2020 - 05:10PM

So happy hubby can go back to work September so my coffee dates can start then happy days

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ExoticOrchid - 20 Aug, 2020 - 04:58PM

bb68 - 04:44PM

Depends on where you are ... obviously you wouldn't go to your local or a restaurant in the same village, etc but in a big city there are lots of options.

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1117169 - 20 Aug, 2020 - 04:54PM

@Secretaccomplice

It might be, depending on who you have selected for your date.

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