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First date

When do you know it's time to suggest going for dinner on a first date? Or are first date drinks more appropriate? x

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Purple dreamer - 07 Oct, 2021 - 02:24PM

I think you just know


1368604 - 07 Oct, 2021 - 01:24PM

Sex is soooo much better when there is a connection so definitely i expect to get to know a man before I jump into bed with him. If you just want sex join a swinging site! If you want a lover then make an effort and get to know her. Starting with informal drinks is a start, then a longer dinner date perhaps and take it from there.

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Chandru - 07 Oct, 2021 - 11:49AM

Get to know each other with a drink !


Imneverg - 07 Oct, 2021 - 09:28AM

I like to have the first meeting as soon as possible. For me I prefer to out for a coffee and chat to see if there is anything there. What happens next is....

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Stanley road - 05 Oct, 2021 - 11:22AM

Defo tea, coffee or quick glass of wine for first meet…. Then dinner on 2nd and we all know the rules for date 3 😂😂

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Peaches1 - 02 Oct, 2021 - 11:33PM

Get the first date / meet in asap as its the lnly way forward and prevents the endless texts and timewasters. I suggest a brief meeting to start and go from there x

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1117169 - 02 Oct, 2021 - 03:21PM

@truth and logic

There are guys who prefer to get to know you before the "S" word comes into the conversation. You just need to find one like this.

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1117169 - 02 Oct, 2021 - 03:16PM

When you are hungry and your table is ready.

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ExoticOrchid - 02 Oct, 2021 - 02:45PM

t and l - 09:43AM

You are absolutely under NO obligation to "put out" at all ... no woman is!!!

Just be clear when chatting that you're looking to get to know each other before you go any further ... he'll either agree or disappear ... his loss in that case surely.

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ExoticOrchid - 02 Oct, 2021 - 02:34PM

ADB 01:12PM

Only if you're meeting to have sex straight away with that stranger ... otherwise a first meet is to see what you think of each other so, for me personally, there's nothing wrong with a coffee meet ... also, if there's no chemistry (no matter how good the chats have been so far) you can make a quick exit.

If all is going well, there's always the option of staying on for a meal.

That's how I look at it anyway. Each to their own of course.

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