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All Day Breakfast - 02 Oct, 2021 - 01:12PM

Lol @classylady77 nothing like a flat white in Starbucks to put you in the mood for sex with a stranger 🤣

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truth and logic - 02 Oct, 2021 - 09:43AM

COFFEE ,IM A TEA WOMAN , anyway i find that apart from two that did not fancy me, guys want a hotel meet for a second date. Im looking for an affair not a hook-up and coffee is not long enough for me to decide if sex (so an affair )is on the cards, a light lunch, worst case two mannered grown ups chat and part best case they become lovers.Sex is never far from the conversation on date one and it can feel seedy, if i wanted a hook -up i would not be here spending time chatting to guys hoping to get to know them, tell me ladies or gents how do i get a date to want to know me as a person before he enjoy me as a lover?Or do i just have to put out straight away? ONS are not for me and that often becomes the case if the guy is average in the sack, if we knew each other better more chance it would be better.

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JiGa76 - 01 Oct, 2021 - 11:50PM

Drinks first. Non alcoholic best

ExoticOrchid - 01 Oct, 2021 - 11:28PM

EmEm123

Totally with you re homes and hosting ... no way Jose! 🙄

EmnEm123 - 01 Oct, 2021 - 10:34PM

@L'Uomo Elegante

I just take it as it comes!

@Imneverg

I don't think anyone is suggesting getting 'pissed up'.

But meeting at home, or another's home?. Bit weird.

I sometimes feel that I'm targeted by guys because I'm separated and they think I'll host.

No chance, if that's what I wanted I'd get a boyfriend.

That's not what this site is for!

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Black Gent - 01 Oct, 2021 - 10:17PM

Yes I am a coffe first person or even something alcoholic. I am not a mean man but I like to know WHO I am wining and dining. as a young man I once took a woman out for a superb meal at a thai restaurant when Thai was "new" to Fulham... SHe told me just after I paid the bill that sh was not intersted but thanked me as she always wanted to try that Thai restaurant.... Catch me once? Shame on you. Catch me twice?? Hell No!

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Imneverg - 01 Oct, 2021 - 09:49PM

For me i don't drink as I have to drive. I always suggest going out for a coffee. So we can sit down and have a chat. But my last two meets have been good one at my house. Yes I know not a good place for a meet. The second one was at was at a lady's house. Both ended in a good time. And no alcohol flowed.

Mad World - 01 Oct, 2021 - 06:06PM

@EmnEm123

What sauce are you putting in that footling sub?
I usually put two.
That’s def not cheating
Making me hungry all of a sudden

ClassyLady77 - 01 Oct, 2021 - 05:39PM

😂 All Day Breakfast.. Totally agree with the coffee and CV. 😂 Easier to relax with a glass of wine..

It depends what you want. iF you want.a hook up then coffee. If you want a proper affair then wine and dine….

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1453209 - 01 Oct, 2021 - 05:16PM

The first I'd usually go for day time drinks somewhere you could also eat if you're clicking. But if you've been talking a while and have a connection a meal is also a good choice. Do what feels right for you. Good luck :)