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When do you know it's time to suggest going for dinner on a first date? Or are first date drinks more appropriate? x

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All Day Breakfast - 01 Oct, 2021 - 04:53PM

Drinks! Always drinks. But have a plan if things are going well … meet in a place that also does food, or know somewhere round the corner. Dinner dates definitely 2nd date territory. Exception to above is if you know you’re going to get on, eg have been talking on phone for a long time before meeting, dinner is better option. Never meet for a coffee … you may as well bring your CV along too.

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EmnEm123 - 01 Oct, 2021 - 03:19PM

Eating is cheating?
Tell that to the just eat driver who is about to deliver me a foot long meatball sub (extra cheese)!


1476334 - 01 Oct, 2021 - 12:18PM

A drink is better, if you dont click it's over quicker. If you do click you will know pretty quickly.

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Mad World - 01 Oct, 2021 - 11:50AM

In my world…eating is cheating. Far better things to be doing than dinner and drinks. Details on request


Mad World - 01 Oct, 2021 - 11:42AM

Simple. Whenever you’re hungry. You (or they) say. ‘I’m Hank Marvin. Time to eat. Shall we?’
Very simple


anais nin - 30 Aug, 2020 - 09:46PM

Coffee or a drink for first couple of meets I would think then perhaps lunch or dinner ......that covers the 3 date rule also plus getting to know ur potential lover before jumping into her !

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Lizziej - 30 Aug, 2020 - 12:49PM

Coffee first usually

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chaostheory - 30 Aug, 2020 - 11:53AM

Drinks always, nothing worse than either party having to sit through dinner if there is no attraction, drink, then if you feel the spark then more drinks! 🙂

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1278875 - 28 Aug, 2020 - 10:58PM

A drink is great then dinner if we get on and who knows where the night......

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1400457 - 28 Aug, 2020 - 09:01PM

Haven’t had a meet yet but a drink I think a good starting point 🤔

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