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tea_coffee_me_ - 22 Sep, 2020 - 12:31PM

I have had over 2 decades more mature, which I knew about - no issues

I have had over a decade more mature, which he fibbed about (good genes) - I just teased him and reserved the right to always do so ... which happens from time to time.

Some people look their age and the worst for, others do not.

Ok its not ideal if someone fibs about their age, however you are MARRYING THEM.
You are not planning for them to be a parent to your child/ren.

Its an affair where most are fibbing to their legal spouse ... if you enjoy each others company, have a good time, and often these things last months not decades, what IS the issue.

I would prefer 10 great IE's who fib about their age as THEY feel they must, (so that is saying something about the opposite sex...) than miss out on those times and maybe never find anyone!

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ExoticOrchid - 22 Sep, 2020 - 10:49AM

Enigma - 08:52AM

Ah well I was talking about the kind of pics you can show anyone! 🤣

1399985 - 22 Sep, 2020 - 10:01AM

@Enigma each to their own of course, but personally I've had 14+ year age gap IEs and conventional relationships and been very pleasantly surprised!

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Enigma.. - 22 Sep, 2020 - 08:52AM

@ExoticOrchid
My point exactly...
Privacy to take photos he certainly would/could not take at home. If you catch my drift.
And I’ve seen, on the site, some “hotel” photos that I wish I hadn’t... lol.
Once seen, never forgotten.
Pity we don’t have the ability to erase certain “things “ from our memories... lol 💋x

Enigma.. - 22 Sep, 2020 - 08:43AM

@Sportster1200L
I’m 52. He claimed he was 59. A 7 year age gap. Acceptable.
I’m 52. He is 66. A 14 year age gap. Unacceptable.
I don’t mind a few year’s difference either way. But over a decade!!
That’ll be a no... lol 💋

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tea_coffee_me_ - 21 Sep, 2020 - 10:03PM

I am single however also do not wish all n sundry to know I am here...
Only selected friends know, NOT the potential IE's around the corner or two ...
Someone on another site saw this profile and sent me rather nasty messages because of it!

I have had a few fib about their ages.
Some on the photos have had very hard paper rounds and time at the mines!! Or their genes have not been kind.

Others have fibbed however we have had a relationship and they have admitted it a year or so later!!
I do not generally take age into account as had a good relationship with larger age gaps than I expected :-D

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ExoticOrchid - 21 Sep, 2020 - 09:35PM

Enigma.. - 21 Sep, 2020 - 09:50AM
"Nothing put’s me off more than a photo taken in..
B) Hotel bedrooms"

Why does that put you off ... at least the bed will be nicely made and not much mess in the background ... besides, he's probably got more privacy there than in his own home.

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ExoticOrchid - 21 Sep, 2020 - 09:25PM

Me, myself and I ... so many reincarnations!!!

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1117169 - 21 Sep, 2020 - 07:44PM

@ Roxy Gee

Why is an out of focus pic a sign of arrogance?

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1117169 - 21 Sep, 2020 - 07:42PM

@Enigma

You said he was actually 66 but pretended to be 59. You made no reference to your age or the age gap between him and you.

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