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Roxy Gee - 21 Sep, 2020 - 06:48PM

Out of focus is code for either not a looker or arrogance x both of which just delay the inevitable rejection but seriously waste our time xx

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Enigma.. - 21 Sep, 2020 - 09:52AM

@LondonSkater
And there are a lot of “Time Wasters” on here... 💋

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Enigma.. - 21 Sep, 2020 - 09:50AM

@Rose Bud
Here, here.
Nothing put’s me off more than a photo taken in...
A) Public/Private bathroom’s/loo’s.
B) Hotel bedrooms.
C) Their own, especially messy, bedrooms.
Lol... 💋

Enigma.. - 21 Sep, 2020 - 09:43AM

@Cherry_X
I’m a very plain speaker and a dab hand at sussing out (coughs) liars... lol.
If I had £10 for every... “Aw come on”. “Live a little”. “We could be great together”. etc etc... I have been messaged after they have been sussed... I’d be a rich woman lol.
But... I would like to point out that I have messaged and chatted to some lovely gents on here 💋

Enigma.. - 21 Sep, 2020 - 09:34AM

@Sportster1200L
I’m no mathematical genius. But...
Il think you’ll find that it’s a 14 year age gap...
I’m 52. He’s 66. 😏

Anna.K - 20 Sep, 2020 - 11:41PM

I agree blurred photos are the least of some of the worries!

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1410656 - 20 Sep, 2020 - 09:45PM

Blurry photos is one thing but taking 10 photos of their half naked body (every angle) without their face is worse.
Time waster!

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1393321 - 20 Sep, 2020 - 09:25PM

I've seen a lot of men's comments saying that they've showed their pictures and then the chat has gone cold. You know it won't always be your actual face, how important is an extra millimetre on a nose? ....If it was me doing the rejecting, it would be the quality of the photos., if there wasn't any effort, or the pictures were boring.

If a man has made me laugh, has interesting insights and reveals he has a sweet soul in our chats then he has got my attention. His photos are going to be an extension of that personality.

I would like to see a straight face, a smiling face and a full length picture but all in interesting contexts. Selfie photos in hotel bathrooms are dull.

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Readyornot464 - 20 Sep, 2020 - 06:43PM

Hey

1408335 - 20 Sep, 2020 - 05:44PM

Tips on pics? Pretty obvious really?
One full length in your favourite normal attire. (Wedding pics don't count. Nobody looks like that every day?)
At least one decently close face without hats or sunglasses or, God forbid, fish mouth pouts or photo shopped eyes! How hard can it be?

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